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Leave no trace: How to release stored emotions

Did you know…

That your respiratory diaphragm helps you process emotion?

In Ancient Greece, the diaphragm was called phrenos, “the unity of all possibilities of human expression.”

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On top of the many physical roles it plays, the diaphragm also serves as a half-way house for everything we experience.

Our emotions are meant to move through us as we move through life. 

When we experience an emotion, it heads to the diaphragm for processing. Once there, it does one of four things.

  1. Goes Up and Out: This is expressed emotion. When we hear something funny we laugh, when we’re angry we yell, when we’re sad we cry. This is all healthy for the body: the emotion moves through us, does what it needs to do, and is gone.
  2. Goes Down and Out: This happens when the emotion isn’t acute enough to need to be expressed. Instead, it can move safely through the body. The lessons from the experience can be assimilated and the waste is eliminated through the digestive system. This is also a healthy way to experience, integrate, and release emotion.
  3. Gets Stored for later: This is where things start to get sticky. When too much is happening at once, and it’s not possible to process everything in the moment, the diaphragm will send the emotion into storage in your  body’s tissues to be dealt with later. Having anger in the shoulders or fear in the knees will eventually start to weaken the body.
  4. Gets stuck: This is what happens when the diaphragm is SO overwhelmed with an overload of emotion that it doesn’t know what to do. In this case, the diaphragm will store the emotion in its own tissue. This is the worst possible scenario because the stored emotion then limits the diaphragm’s movement and makes it even harder for the diaphragm to do its job in the future.  A downward spiral!

It’s this last scenario that I’m going to focus on today.

I’m going to show you how to help your diaphragm release stored emotions so it can get rid of old stuff and get back to helping you process the things that come up in your life. This is a great one to do before diving into any of the other deep work on this site : )

Be sure to follow along to release stored emotions!

If you like this video, you’d probably also enjoy this more recent post on how to release grief from your body

Or this video that guides you through centering in your heart while having clear boundaries. 

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If you have any questions or comments, please share them in the section below.  I love hearing from you : )

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7 responses to “Leave no trace: How to release stored emotions”

  1. Jeanett Avatar

    Hey just wanted too give you a quick heads up. The words in your article seem to be running off the
    screen in Opera. I’m not sure if this is a format issue or something to do with browser compatibility but I thought
    I’d post to let you know. The style and design look great though!
    Hope you get the issue resolved soon. Many thanks

    1. Amberlee Avatar

      Thank you Jeanett, I’ll look into that : )

  2. Leo Avatar

    Hello Amberley
    thanks for sharing, I like the way you are using tapping here.
    Warmly
    Leo

    1. Amberlee Avatar

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it Leo : ) Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  3. James Avatar
    James

    Thanks Amberlee,
    How long should we spend on this for each given point? . What about for deeply stored trauma or rigid diaphragms? Thank you kindly. James

    1. Amberlee Avatar

      Hi James, welcome. These are great questions. I would suggest to focus on each point for about 3-5 breaths, or just stay and breathe and relax until you feel a shift, or feel complete. I would also suggest to only focus on a few points in a single day to give your system time to process, and to stay hydrated while you focus on releasing your diaphragm. You could also search this site for meditations on other emotions that might be relevant (there are several on stress, anxiety, worry, grief, fear, anger, etc) to help your system gently process layers of what might be stored there.

      As for deeply stored trauma, I would highly recommend approaching yourself with deep gentleness and compassion. Part of this is allowing yourself to process at a pace that feels comfortable and harmonious. I would also highly recommend considering having support. I’d look for someone you resonate with who has an awareness of the connection between trauma and how it can be stored in the body. You’re also welcome to look at my one-on-one offerings to see if they call to you. Feel free to ask any other questions here, or to reach out via my contact page if you have any further questions you’d like to explore.

      Wishing you the very best!
      ~Amberlee

      1. James Avatar
        James

        Thank you soo much Amberlee. Your feedback is deeply appreciated. James

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